Sympathisers are not your friends. They are only expressing their inabilities through your sorrow.
So in effect, their helplessness is being transferred to you through your own internal suffering.
Stay away from them…. Or empathise with them. Surprisingly, you will be able to help them find solutions.
Caution: Do still stay away. Because when they see you are better than them, you will soon find yourself sorting out their problem inspite of your unresolved mess staying unresolved.